Guides for families caring for someone they love

Practical answers on care options, costs, legal planning and daily support.
Things You Must Know About Probate & Estate Administration

Things You Must Know About Probate & Estate Administration

When a family member dies, the last thing your family wants is to get bogged down in estate details. But there are some things that you absolutely need to be aware of regarding Probate and Estate Administration. Here are some of these important items.   After the death of a loved one, all of his […]

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WHO WILL MAKE YOUR HEALTH CARE DECISIONS IF YOU CAN’T?

WHO WILL MAKE YOUR HEALTH CARE DECISIONS IF YOU CAN’T?

What would happen if loved ones suddenly could not make decisions for themselves? Who would make these decisions? What kinds of decisions would they be able to make? These are overwhelming questions to think about, but they are important ones. Texas residents thinking about these questions may want to consider making an advance directive. What […]

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How long should you keep important documents?

How long should you keep important documents?

Clients often ask us which documents, records, and papers they need to keep in their homes. When determining which documents to shred and which ones to keep, it is important to point out that one should always be careful to destroy any documents that may include sensitive personal information before discarding them. Those who ascribe […]

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Recent Changes to the Law Make It Harder to Qualify for VA Benefits

Recent Changes to the Law Make It Harder to Qualify for VA Benefits

The VA Aid and Attendance Pension Benefit provides eligible veterans with tax-free income. This benefit also extends to surviving spouses of eligible veterans. A married veteran can receive up to $2,903 per month to help with the cost of long-term care while a surviving spouse can receive up to $1,176 per month. Aid and Attendance can be used to pay anyone, including […]

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The Hidden Dangers of Having Joint Accounts

The Hidden Dangers of Having Joint Accounts

Many people believe that joint ownership of bank accounts and real estate are an effective way to avoid probate and transfer money to loved ones. But while joint accounts can be useful in certain circumstances, they can have dire consequences if not used properly. Adding a loved one to a bank account can affect your […]

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Elder Abuse: Spotting the Warning Signs and Getting Help

Elder Abuse: Spotting the Warning Signs and Getting Help

What is elder abuse? Elder abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of sex, social status or ethnic background. It wears many faces and, alarmingly, typically occurs at the hands of the people who are most trusted by the victims – like their spouses, children, grandchildren, caregivers or financial or other advisors. California’s laws set forth […]

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Making Decisions About End of Life Medical Treatment

Making Decisions About End of Life Medical Treatment

While advances in medicine allow people to live longer, questions are often raised about life-sustaining treatment terminally ill patients may or may not want to receive. Those who fail to formally declare these wishes in writing to family members and medical professionals run the risk of having the courts make these decisions. For this reason, […]

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Baby Boomers Caring for Aging Parents and Children

Baby Boomers Caring for Aging Parents and Children

Baby boomers are classified as a group of people born between the years of 1946 and 1964. As many as 75 percent of baby boomers are planning their own retirement while juggling family responsibilities. Due to increased life expectancy, as many as 71 percent of baby boomers have at least one living parent, according to […]

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How to Deal with the High Cost of Aging

How to Deal with the High Cost of Aging

Sadly Aging Happens! And, change is a part of the aging process. Changes in eyesight, hearing, bone density, the brain and other physical and psychological functional loss become more severe as people age. Many seniors start to need more care as they experience health problems, or suffer from chronic illness, heart disease, cancer and dementia. […]

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The Importance of Incapacity Planning for You and Your Family

The Importance of Incapacity Planning for You and Your Family

Many people understand the importance of developing a comprehensive estate plan for the purpose of administering their assets upon their death, but far fewer understand the equally, if not greater, importance of incapacity planning. Incapacity Planning, also referred to as life planning, is planning for the unfortunate circumstance of becoming unable to control your finances […]

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The 5 Phases of Effective Retirement Planning

The 5 Phases of Effective Retirement Planning

Without question, the core strategy to succeed in having enough for retirement is living well within your means. Keep in mind, there are significant differences in approach depending on your priorities, age, circumstances, income, and tax bracket. One size does not fit all. But generally speaking, you gain more flexibility and choice the earlier you […]

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When It Comes to Veteran’s Benefits DIY Doesn’t Work

When It Comes to Veteran’s Benefits DIY Doesn’t Work

As you might expect, there are several benefits available to assist wounded or disabled Veterans. But unbeknownst to many, there are also pension benefits that exist for men and women who served and were not injured. Lack of knowledge leads veterans to miss out on the important assistance they have earned. However, it is essential to […]

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AVAILABLE TOOLS TO HELP FOR A BETTER FUTURE

AVAILABLE TOOLS TO HELP FOR A BETTER FUTURE

“Will you still need me, will you still feed me, when I’m sixty four?” When Paul McCartney penned those lines he was in his 20s. 64 must have seemed ancient to him. He is well past the 64 mark now, but the tune still resonates. Not quite hidden beneath the clarinets is a serious question […]

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How often should you review your estate plan?

How often should you review your estate plan?

As we get ready to turn the page from 2018 to 2019, it is not a bad time to focus on your Rule Book (the set of documents in which you lay out your estate plan) and make sure that the rules you have in place are still consistent with your wishes and your needs.  How often you […]

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When should a family caregiver be paid?

When should a family caregiver be paid?

In many families, the situation is familiar: As your loved ones grow older, they need help with daily and routine tasks. Often, a family member steps in and takes care of the elder. Over time, the elder needs more help, so the family caregiver’s responsibilities grow. As the caregiver spends more time with the elder, […]

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Caregiver Agreement – 5 Benefits for Families

Caregiver Agreement – 5 Benefits for Families

Long-term caregiving has significant financial consequences for caregiver agreement, particularly for women.  Caregivers face the loss of their own income, loss of employer-based benefits, shrinking of savings to pay for caregiving costs and a threat to their retirement income due to fewer contributions to retirement vehicles. One way to compensate an adult child willing to […]

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Some Common Estate Planning Mistakes to Avoid

Some Common Estate Planning Mistakes to Avoid

Creating an estate plan can seem to many like an unpleasant chore. Reminders of a person’s mortality are rarely enjoyable, so many people put the task off for “later” — sometimes never getting around to doing it at all. Not creating an estate plan is just one of many common estate planning mistakes that cause […]

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The Cost of In-Home Senior Care: 6 Line Items that Should be in Every Budget

The Cost of In-Home Senior Care: 6 Line Items that Should be in Every Budget

When families reach the point where it’s evident that a loved one needs in-home senior care, one of the first problems to solve is the budget. Whether you need round-the-clock care or hourly companionship assistance, there are several budget items that will collectively comprise the cost of in-home care for elderly parents or loved ones. Before […]

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Pre-Need Funeral Contracts — What You Need to Know

Pre-Need Funeral Contracts — What You Need to Know

Most, if not all, funeral homes offer pre-need funeral arrangements. Pre-need simply means you pay for your funeral arrangements in advance. The allure of the pre-need arrangement is the sense of security it provides to those who wish to leave as little of a burden as possible on their loved ones — including the financial […]

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What is the Difference Between Estate Planning and Elder Law?

What is the Difference Between Estate Planning and Elder Law?

Estate Planning vs Elder Law We are often asked about the difference between estate planning and elder law. Although we believe that the two go hand-in-hand, there are important distinctions between them. One notable similarity, however, is that they are both more universal than they may seem at first glance: estate planning is not only […]

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